10年之后

Wow, juz realised almost 11 years since I started this blog. Although there were pockets of years that 1) so caught up in living my life that I 'didnt have time' to blog. 2) so numb to life that doesn't seem like theres much to blog. 

I do realise, as we grow older, we become less passionate about certain things and we learn to be more 'chill'. Its a both sides to a coin thing I feel. 

Was telling a friend the other day, I used to watch movies and reality TV varitety shows and see how couples interact and how 'loving' they are. Then I will start wishing my other half can be like that, then start to have unrealistic expectations of him. End up make myself unhappy cos he doesn't even know what I want, not romantic, not caring for living enough etc etc. 

Now, I watch and go 'aww so sweet'. Then I'll go to my husband and say 'good night, love you.' Lol

No unrealistic expectations = no disappointment.