the annoying moments

Sometimes arguments with the husband is so dumb an mind-boggling that one can really really go WTF. 

Husband asked me to buy something online for a friend. Item got delivered, husband claims I bought the wrong item. Tried to explain to husband what I rem the convo to be. Don't want to listen. Told me to stop discussing as it will go nowhere with both having diff idea. Fine. Told him to check with friend if it's the correct item and if wrong i will sell it off n reorder for friend. Received a curt 'not something u need to concern yourself with'. And got pissed.. really is WTF moment. 

So asked him what he angry over. Say cos everytime argue I tell him to stop discussing he must stop. Yet when he say to me i don't stop. That was the most mind boggling moment because to me it is always THE OTHER WAY ROUND... 

So pek cek now.. 😑😑😡🤬🤬

its it's a voting time

GE2020 happening in 2 days. Juz to note it down, somehow a Sengkang resident has been carved into Ang Mo Kio Grc and the opposition hasn't presented a team that can induce me to vote them. My dilemma now is blank vote or blank cheque. 

On a more personal note, me n the hubs trying to adopt a dog, and we also have 'competition' as theres also another couple interested in the same dog as we want to adopt. So to a certain extent, I'm in an election of my own as one of the candidates. Will be hearing from the agency within the next couple of days (I hope). Never owned a dog before so very excited. Trying to tamp down excitement and expectations.. 期望越大，失望越大.. prepare for the worse will let me get over disappointment faster i hope... 🤞🏼🤞🏼

10年之后

Wow, juz realised almost 11 years since I started this blog. Although there were pockets of years that 1) so caught up in living my life that I 'didnt have time' to blog. 2) so numb to life that doesn't seem like theres much to blog. 

I do realise, as we grow older, we become less passionate about certain things and we learn to be more 'chill'. Its a both sides to a coin thing I feel. 

Was telling a friend the other day, I used to watch movies and reality TV varitety shows and see how couples interact and how 'loving' they are. Then I will start wishing my other half can be like that, then start to have unrealistic expectations of him. End up make myself unhappy cos he doesn't even know what I want, not romantic, not caring for living enough etc etc. 

Now, I watch and go 'aww so sweet'. Then I'll go to my husband and say 'good night, love you.' Lol

No unrealistic expectations = no disappointment.