all about cats and pigs..

hmmz... together wif TSO for a month plus.. of coz, we're still happily in the honeymoon period, but of coz there are some differences already..

hmm.. we both are super stubborn ppl.. n most times we refuse to budge from our stance.. guess who has to give in to the other in the end?

In a r/s, there must always be a balance.. i realised that in my previous 2 r/s, there wasn't any balance at all.. the first one, i was the one who always gives in, letting myself get bullied, and in the 2nd one, it was the other way round.. i seriously hope i will learn from both rs and learn to strike a balance with this relationship.. give and take..

Plus we both have very different ways of thinking, and ways of handling things.. it really added to alot of problems.. he'd rather drop a subject and not talk about it anymore if we can't see things in the same light, but my style is to talk about it so that we know each other's point of view.. I would like him to understand where i'm coming from, and why i think that way.. of coz.. smtimes it's not possible to explain cos this cat does like to do illogical things at times.. but TSO is a super logical person and he isn't able to understand why i will do things so out of the norm.. actually, sometimes i also dunno.. hahaha..

other than that, i'm perfectly happy in this relationship.. I remember ever telling michelle (our matchmaker) this:
"Yong an is a guy i can fall in love with."
Guess wat.. The statement has come true..

Watched the movie 'Hitch' by Will Smith last time.. there was one quote in the movie that I couldn't forget. Will Smith was teaching the guy how to kiss a girl properly, and the statement he made was something like:

"Remember, this could be her last first kiss."

I think it's damn meaningful.. and I hope I have given my last first kiss to TSO.

Yup. I love him and i'm proud to admit it..