Friday, 26 June 2020

Awkwardly awkward

As this cat is suffering from slight insomnia,  decided to make a record of one of the most awkward moments in her life.

Happened a few years back. I was buying lunch at my favourite BCM place in TPY to eat with my ex-boyfriend (now husband).

It was a popular stall so the wait can take awhile.. that 'awhile' became one of the most interesting periods in my life...

I ordered, then was waiting..  and then lo and behold, I saw a guy that I had a crush on thruout most of my poly n uni life.. Mr. D.
As with most people, crushes normally doesn't end up in anything, but at least Mr D and I were still on talking terms at that point, but more on a level on acquaintance.

He was with a friend there for lunch and they were waiting for their food as well. All was well with abit of polite chit chat as we haven't seen each other in years by then, cos I finally, at some point in my life, realised that I had fallen out of crush with him.

Suddenly, a girl a few tables away came over, sat down, and started talking to his friend. After the initial surprise, it registered that one of the first things she said was '你几时要还我钱?' Or along those lines. At first I thought she was like a close friend so used a 烂梗 to say hi. After awhile, we realised she was serious so things got awkward quickly. Mr D and I sat there, looking awkwardly at each other and both didnt dare to say anything..
After the confrontation, the girl left with some last warning shit and 3 of us sat there with the guy trying weakly to explain.. something about house sold off n profit not as expected or something like that.
Their number got called and the friend went to collect their food. Mr D and I sat there and went 'what the heck was that? So awkward!'
The friend came back and after a few more awkward moments it was my turn and I left asap.

Have to say that really was a WTF moment. Imagine bumping into ex crush already awkward. Then to see such a scene.. really is like 拍戏啊??!!


  • Ok.. gonna sleep now..

Still alive!

Wow. My blog is actually still alive.. had it been a real diary its probably buried inside a chest of clothes, forgotten in an attic somewhere (or Storageworld in SG context) to be discovered n discarded years later..

Aft years of silence, juz wanted to do a little update thus far.

2011 dec, my nephew came into the world. To translate my absence from blogging, he is turning 6 this year.
2011 is also the year me n TSO applied for our BTO. First time lucky!

2012 Feb, my dearest ah gong left us. He stayed on long enough to see his great-grandson though. Nothing can describe the stabbing pain of loss I felt and still feel. (U know the the scene in 'Goblin' whereby he clutches his chest in pain due to the sword. Probably the same feel)

2012 nov, left my acct servicing job aft 2 years.
Went to ntuc for near 6 months n left. Nice plc but i think big organisations not my thing..

Smtime in 2013, joined an events co n things couldn't work out. So i went to be hokkien mee 妹。

2014, family took over a chinese restaurant, ah yat @jurong bird park n there i stayed for the next 2 years.

2015, the year we spent the most money. Paid for the deposit of our house, had our ROM (yes,this is a married cat now), and renovated our house.

2016 jan 9, official move in date n that's where cat's cave has been ever since. No longer a jurong-kia..